PinnedKelly on datingThe Central ProblemPeople who make dating apps usually share the same vision: An egalitarian community, where everyone is friendly, communicates…3 min read·Jul 29, 2018----
Kelly on datingDoes early sex kill relationships?One of the most important questions about dating is one which it seems noone dares discuss seriously. If you’re dating someone and they’re…3 min read·Apr 24, 2024----
Kelly on datingHow to be Good at SexSome people, legend has it, are good at sex. Many more aspire to be good at it. This is notoriously difficult to do. It doesn’t help that…2 min read·Mar 22, 2024----
Kelly on datingPicking out a good partnerWhen looking for a serious partner you have to make a guess as to who it might work out with. Relationships in general have a high failure…3 min read·Mar 16, 2024----
Kelly on datingHow To Fall In LoveMost of the advice about dating is about how to find a partner, only tertiarily how to get them to fall in love with you, and barely…4 min read·Feb 3, 2024----
Kelly on datingHow to use Dating Apps as a WomanThere’s much more actionable advice for women to follow about how to use dating apps than for men. This is because most men already know…2 min read·Nov 16, 2023----
Kelly on datingOld ConnectionsDating app profiles tend to collect old dead connections over time. Maybe they’re from people who stopped using the app. Maybe they’re…2 min read·Sep 27, 2023----
Kelly on datingApps which can be writtenI’d like to draw your attention to AreWeDatingTheSameGuy, which is in its current incarnation a web site and Facebook group devoted to…5 min read·Jun 18, 2023----
Kelly on datingJubileeThe pandemic, obviously, was not good for dating. Most people were confined to only seeing a few other people, which meant that either they…2 min read·May 18, 2023----
Kelly on datingYou don’t need your top choiceThinking more about approaching dating algorithmically and how attached it is to mantaining some possibility that the person who you…2 min read·Feb 16, 2023----